Should I tell my wife that I have a fantasy in which I cross dress and give men oral?
I have been married for a while now and I am very happy. Before I married my wife I told her that I have had oral sexy with a man in the past and that had cross-dressed. I fantasize about this from time to time while I M.B not every time, but sometimes.I dont M.B. much either we have a great sex life and love each other but when she finds out that I M.B. from time to time she wants to know what I think about, and I lie to her about it and I don’t like it. but I don’t think she can handle it. So should I leave it alone or tell her and hope that she will still love me.
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Filed under: Men Cross Dressing
Valerie
Meg
Don’t be an idiot.
What have you to benefit from hurting your wife? Nothing. And "YES", you will be hurting her by telling her about your sexual fantasies. It will confuse her and she will question if it is her fault.
Believe me. Every marriage has its own little secrets. It is okay to have a few secrets when you are trying to protect the ones you love.
Before you bring anything like this up to your wife, you must be sure about how she feels about some limited cross-dressing. Perhaps you can explain that it is a sexual fetish where your brain releases dopamines and products sensations of well-being and pleasure. Its like a cat with catnip.
I would recommend that you use some men’s clothes that are soft and feel like lingerie. They make men’s nylon pajamas that are made of the same material as lingerie. They also make silky boxers for men, some are even satin. Try that out before you put your marriage in jeopardy.
Be honest with her.
Up to you man but that sounds homosexual as fuck. lmao anyway if you think she can deal than do it but sometimes as men you just gotta suck it up and take a hit for the ones you love. you really wana hurt her feelings? Or you wana suck some guys dick more? up to you bro.
Be honest with her that’s what marriage is about right. Tell her what you think about what you fantasize about cause honestly I if I was her I’d still love you.
You should absolutely tell her. If you only think about guys then you shouldn’t be with a woman at all. You need to let her know what you really like. There can be ways of incorporating it. (polyamourism is where you can have a boyfriend and a girlfriend).
As long as this is just a fantasy, leave it alone. There is nothing to be gained by telling your wife.
she doesn’t want to hear that!, me thinks you be gay cross dresser!