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I’m not gay. I want to have a "normal" relationship, but she has to be OK with me putting on heels sometimes….like fuzzy slippers. Can’t we both enjoy life?
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There is no easy way to tell someone that you enjoy cross-dressing. But if you are in a relationship that is going to become serious, you should. My advice is to be direct about it, not coy and not embarrassed. Cross-dressing is a part of you. Simple as that. It does not change the person you are, its a part of the person that you are. She may not like it, and then again she might. But if she doesn’t like it, it’s better for both of you to know now rather than later after you are married with kids.
When you do tell her…be prepared to reassert your sexuality and hers. Just because she is with you and you are in heels doesn’t mean that she is now going to be a lesbian any more than you are gay. And remind her this: you are with her… not a guy.
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Watch ‘Ed Wood’ with her and then see her reaction. Tell her after the movie, or during.
think this through..
Do you think your girlfriend would be ok with you wearing heels and her wearing loafers?
Some girls are into that, strangely enough.
You will find the right woman some day.
Maybe you just have a shoe fed dish, she might like it. I like it when my husband puts on my undies.
Just be honest – either she’ll be cool with it, or she won’t. If you aren’t willing to give it up, then you will never have a successful relationship with someone who is bothered by this.
It may take you a little longer to find someone ok with that, but believe it or not, some girls think that’s kinda hot…
well unfortunately its not how you tell her. if she is not accepting of you and how you want to live your life, then she isn’t the one for you. just try to explain to her that this is who you are and there isn’t anything wrong with it, its just something you like to do. i really hope the best for you and when you tell her, she’ll still love you for who you are.
yea u can but jut suggest little by little at first or u can say : " how would u feel if i was…(blank)" n say im just curious for ur answer
Been their done that. Men that cross dress are not gay. I always enjoyed lesbian bars or drag bars. Had a lot of fun with the lady’s once they got to know me. You have to be very careful who you tell I’ve told a few and the blame the cross dressing for the break up. It take avery special woman to handle this. You may what to take her to a drag bar and see how she dose. Talk a bout gays and see how she reacts. If they have and know gay’s it might help out. Sum say that are ok with this but are not. But all you can do tell them and see what happens. Remember the more you tell the more know about it. It has come back to me twice so far. Best of luck
It is perfectly possible for you to enjoy life together. But she has to be open minded about it. Most women would probably be scared off, you just have to take your chances
The "normal" girl will have a need to be held and loved by a man she can honor and respect. Her respect for her man will be dependent upon her values and culture for manliness. Most women’s picture of male virtue center’s around strength, security, and defending her honor. So cross-dressing will complicate things and she will have to do some soul searching.
First, determine her views on cross-dressing. Ask her a few questions like: "Why is it that society can adjust to women wearing pants, but not to men wearing skirts?" Or, tell her you found some crazy Japanese game show on U-Tube where guys earn points for dressing like girls:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etLdPMfFoIw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvuQxoxWTj0
Some of these guys are pretty cute. Tell her it’s interesting to see the response of the other people. Check out your girlfriend’s response. What is her attitude toward cross-dressing? Does she think that normal healthy heterosexual men can cross-dress? If she asks you if you’d be willing to do it, just say that you would only do it if it was very private, and only if your partner approved.
If this turns into a discussion about your sexual orientation please assure her that you are 100% heterosexual, with no desire to change your gender. It would probably help if you admitted to a little fetish about heels and fuzzy slippers.