Cross Dressing Boyfriend? Please help!?
Ex-Cross Dressing Boyfriend?!?
Okay lets say that you had been dating this guy for like 3-4 months
and you really liked him, unfortunately u had a long distance
relationship (well kinda, if he lives like 2 hours away, but keep in mind,
this is a highschool relationship) Anyway, you resently found out that
he used to wear womens underware…and i don’t know why…maybe it
was more comfortable..i dont know, i don’t want to know. And resently
he’s been thinking about it agian maybe and now every time you think
of him you can’t help bu thing Cross Dresser and no offence to cross
dressers, but it’s kinda weird you know? anyway, you think you might
break up with him but you’re not sure if you want to…what would you
do in a situation like this please??
um sorry if i double spaced, it’s cause i think it looks to jamed together when i didn’t
Tagged with: 4 months • cross dresser • Cross Dressing • dressers • long distance relationship • offence • underware
Filed under: Cross Dressing
Valerie
Meg
well if it bothers you then it is always going to bother you, he is who he is you will never be able to change that and if you really like him why would u want to change him.
Let the man wear whatever he wants he aint harmin no one!
… why do you write double spaced?
If he’s just switching from male to female underwear it might not be considered crossdressing.
Did you just not like the answers to your other question, or did you repost this just to satisfy your OCD about the spacing? At any rate, here’s my answer copied and pasted, since you apparently didn’t get it on your other question:
I don’t get it. It’s just fabric. Who gets to decide what fabric is appropriate for whom? Should I no longer be allowed to wear my flannel jacket because men usually wear them? Should my ex husband not have worn silk shirts because silk is a girlie thing? What about the fact that I don’t wear make-up, does that make me unworthy of dating who I want to date?
Think about it, it’s ridiculous. And no, cross-dressing isn’t weird. The fact that we have certain types of clothing assigned for certain types of people is what’s weird. It’s sexist and discriminatory. I know you’re probably thinking I’m going overboard, but clothing is just one tiny example of how sexist our society is, and some of the larger examples are very hurtful to people. People get murdered because they’re "different". Don’t perpetuate something that labels people "weird" over a stupid piece of fabric. If you don’t want to date him, fine, don’t. You’re not worthy of him anyway. But don’t be hateful because of a pair of underwear.
Redheaded Stepchild said it very well. Clothes are just clothes, ignoring how they look, it isn’t fair that girls can wear trousers and men can’t wear skirts/dresses if they want to.
Also, you should think of the benefits of having a boyfriend who likes to dress up, such as:
He’ll love to go shopping with you
You can have girly nights in together
He won’t moan that it takes you so long to get ready
and many more.
Give him a chance, he didn’t choose to be the way he is, and I’m gussing he told you, which shows he feels strong enough with your relationship to tell you something like that.