I’d like to start going to clubs were there are transvestites but I kind a get freaked out with the idea of a TV sounding like a guy. Do they make an effort to sound like a woman ?

I am looking for shops that cater to men who wear women’s clothes. I am having a hard time finding women’s size 12 shoes and that sort of thing.
Thanks!

If they are different, what is the difference?

In Houston, I’ve sensed there are very few places to feel comfortable even when dressed discreetly. Do bars frequented by gay men welcoming of trannies or not? How about those that are considered "lesbian bars?"