I lost a bet and have to wear at the end of our school year a dress to prom. But I don’t want to get all the attention so I am going to prom in normal clothes and when I’m inside the building I go to the restrooms to wear the dress and disguise myself as a girl so nobody will notice me.
There are a few problems:
I need to bring all the stuff in a bag to prom and I think the (school) security wants to know what’s in my bag.
It woold look strange if I came out of the men restrooms as a girl.
It woold look strange if I went in the ladies restrooms as a boy.
I can’t come in the building as a girl, because we have to show idea and stuff.

So can somebody give tips?

I am a 14 year old boy who wants to be a cross dresser but I don’t want anyone to know, please can someone give me some advice because i really want to cross dress but don’t wanna tell anyone.

thanks in advance and please could I get some answers and some tips for when i get older and make my decision more open
for those wondering i am straight not gay
and even if its just secretly wearing something would do, i just need to wear something

I want to know should I shave , nails , what to wear what to buy and from wear and if anyone would want to help with this I’m in the joplin area bobby5083@yahoo.com

I have not yet dated a guy but I want to. I want to find very feminine look guys who like to cross dress.especially in public to date.
Jessica the word trannie(s) is offensive term which transsexual hate. MtF transsexual which you are talking about are not what I want. MtF transsexuals are women which are lovely people. I asked for GUYS who look very feminine meaning they are all guys but could make people think they women even though they are guys..

A friend of mine has confided in me about cross-dressing. He is married and has two kids, little kids. His wife is aware of the cross dressing, but not the extent of his obsession.

He won’t go to therapy because he is afraid of therapy. Does any one know of any resources in the Baltimore or Washington DC area for therapists- support groups – anything?

I understand that he is in a terrific amount of pain, but I am not a therapist. I am afraid that letting him talk to me about it is enabling him from figuring out what to do.

To be clear, I 100% support him dressing as a woman. I think that cross-dressing is fine. I just don’t know why he hasn’t already come out and I don’t know how to help him transition.

I kind of think that his refusal to see a therapist who can help him figure out whether he really wants to or not is because he doesn’t really want to. But, I just don’t know. I don’t have any other friends but him with this problem.

Please send me links and resources as well as your opinion on how I can help him.
He confided in me first about 10 years ago. I am basically the only one he talks to about it. I have patience and love for him and support him.

I am insecure about whether or not I am good enough to be the one who gives him advice. He used to be 100% in the closet with the cross dressing. But, now he wants to get a job where he dresses as a woman. I don’t know if he should. I don’t know if he really wants to or if he just likes obsessively planning to do it. I don’t know why he has intrusive thoughts about wearing women’s clothes.

He constantly window shops on the Internet for dresses he wants to wear to work and sends me the links. I get about 5-10 links to outfits per day.

I don’t think these obsessive thoughts are healthy but I don’t know how to help him.