Okay so I’m goin to this bar mitzpha and i have a dress that has a banded hem on the legs and i wanna find shoes that have no heels and there r strings that criss cross up the leg and i’m also gonna wear bangles. Help please!

I’m eighteen and honestly i’m not gonna BS here i’ve always wondered how the clothes would feel and such. I just need some suggestions as to what to wear if you guys can help (a couple of my friends who are girls) are going to assist me, I’ve already asked for their assistance in my make up and nails and such i just need to find an outfit with all the undergarments and such. I really want to try wearing a thong if anyone has a good suggestion btw i have over 0 to spend on this adventure. so any post is welcome. I’m 6 ft and 150 lbs if that helps at all and my hair is down to my shoulder blades in a layered feathered fashion lol . thank you for your help guys

Yet again I am just wanting to try this once but if i like it i might just keep doing it lol.
I also wanna wear some hells I wanna try and go all out
heels* xD sorry can’t type sometimes xD

Women can wear pants, jeans, shorts, have boyish cuts in their hair, wear shirts etc. and it’s considered normal.
If someone saw a man walking down the street wearing a skirt or makeup…people would stare, or worse.
Why is it normal for women to cross-dress but it’s not ‘normal’ for a man to ?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years now. We have a 1 year old daughter together and are very much in love. After so many years of "normal" (we call it vanilla) sex, we added a lot of extra kink into things. First we started with letting him perform anal, then it turned into further anal explorations including strap-ons for me to use on him. We’ve experimented a few times with him wearing thigh-highs or a skirt. Now he really wants to get into it, put on a wig, wear make-up and stuff. I’m totally ok with this and support his journey 100% as long as he is honest with me and includes me on this journey. No going out and exploring on his own. But he is constantly talking about how he feels like he’s a weirdo and he shouldn’t be thinking like this and there’s something wrong with him. How do I assure him that he needs to accept the way he is? I do?

For all you people out there that want to comment negatively or religiously against me, I’m really not interested, so please keep your comments for those who care.
I should add, I’m not "strong-arming" him. I’d love him the same if he continues this than if he stopped. But he’ll start talking about doing things and then get very ashamed all of a sudden.