Just started this phase in my life- love it, but just looking for some advice

i have a 12 year old boy who keeps taking my under wear make up and some clothes i don’t no wot to do how do i tackle this any advice for me please;;;;;

My sister once bought these pants that were really long and had really big flares at the end called gauchos. They looked really cool. One day, half asleep, I accidentally grabbed them off the dryer and slipped them on and grabbed my morning coffee. I noticed how unusually comfy these pants were and how loose they were near the knee and down. I notices what they were and now have a pair of my own to wear to bed and lounge about the house. What would you say if you passed me on a trail in the forest preserve and saw me wearing these? Don’t cross dress just find the spandexy, cottony, Lycra type of pants to be the most comfortable things on this planet. Any help would be greatly appreciated.