Just like any girl, I like it when a man is very masculine and has a big body, but I find myself getting turned on aswell when I see a guy cross dressing or looking like a girl by the way he moves, as in dancing, moving or something else. I’m bi so could this be because I have a thing for female’s body?

So, I’m 14 and I want to start wearing Girls clothes at school. How do i avoid being beat up and stuff?

I have been enjoying a wonderful relationship with my man for five months. Shortly into the relationship he said he had a secret he found embarrassing but wanted to tell me anyway. My response was to ask him to consider carefully as sometimes a secret is best left at that, that something embarrassing from the past has no relevance now and I didn’t want to think less of him.

He informed me he was a cross dresser, that he started as a young boy, was caught by his mum when he was a teenager and she humiliated him by forcing him to wear his sister’s school uniform. He continued to cross dress, giving it up when he married 20 years ago (the marriage ended a year ago and had nothing to do with cross dressing) for a short time, then resuming it.

The explanation given for cross dressing was he found it sexually exciting, daring, he loved the feel of the different fabrics, particularly women’s underwear. He also mentioned owning a collection of high heeled shoes, offered to show me. He said later, after I said no, he wanted to share these things with me. While he has women’s outfits and makeup, he states they don’t turn him on as much as the silky underwear and nightwear.

I know men cross dress for different reasons, that my man did this for sexual reasons.

He is comfortable being a man, is heterosexual.

While he continued to cross dress throughout his marriage, his estranged wife had no knowledge of this.

He stated he gave it up ‘some time ago’ but I have no idea if ‘some time ago’ was six months ago, two years ago…He has been as honest as I feel he can, stating he has no desire or need to cross dress again.

Not knowing much about this subject, I researched the topic looking for insight and understanding. Repeatedly the message was cross dressing is not something that stops and by this I mean, there may be stages where there is no cross dressing and then, something will stir the urge to start up again.

He has all his cross dressing stuff stored in sealed boxes.

I love this man. He loves me. I admire his honesty although he changes the story. A discussion about cross dressing where I mentioned I’d find it disconcerting to think I was with him only to find he was another woman when I was away. He said the only reason he told me was he though cross dressing was funny – he forgot he said he found it embarrassing, was probably fearful of my reaction.

Jokes of how much fun this can be, having a boyfriend who is also a girlfriend, the shopping sprees, the makeup hints, the sharing of perfume I find not funny at all.

While he states he is no longer interested in cross dressing and I believe him, I also suspect there will be a time when he returns to it simply because all the information I have read repeatedly states this and I can’t see why he would be the odd man /woman out. I told him stuff I had read. He asked ‘am I in remission?’ Remission is not a word I would use.

If cross dressing was so easy to stop, then there wouldn’t be so many problems with partners finding out years and years later, feeling betrayed because a big part of who they thought they shared their life with kept this side of them a secret.

I don’t imagine – on the flip side – my man busy relishing my femininity would be all that comfortable if I told him I get my rocks off dressing and pretending I am a man.

The problem is, try as I might to understand, to gain insight, I’m simply not comfortable with cross dressing. I can’t fully explain why, perhaps in part because I see it as a farce and worse, he tries now to downplay the implications. Cross dressing is about pretending to be a woman to the extent a man dresses as a woman and usually masturbates due to the sexual turn on for these people. He, quite angry, said he was 100 percent masculine, didn’t need to feel feminine, like he became very defencive and I let it go.

We have had several discussions – not all at once – about one a month and again, I admire his honesty and believe he is being as honest as he can but then, makes excuses I don’t accept. He said when his mariage was very dull and he was unhappy, he wondered if his wife’s lack of interest in romance had him returning to cross dressing. I feel it had nothing to do with his wife, would be upset if our relationship (like all relationships) hit a lull and he used it as a reason to cross dress.

What I’ve tried to explain to him is cross dressing is not something I can accept in an intimate relationship. I can accept it from an objective point of view because I’m not personally involved and not going to experience the burden of protecting someone I love by keeping their secret and this is the reason I’m writing. Out of respect for him, I can’t confide in my friends or family.

I’m scared the relationship will progress (well it is progressing and it is lovely) and he’ll feel the need to cross dress again. Yet I have no right to tell someone I love what he can do sexually or otherwise just as I w

i am looking for a anime or manga were a guy is cross-dressing and he falls in love with a guy or girl in the story. i have all ready reed:
-Ame Nochi Hare (BIKKE)
-Kiss Me Princess
-Mizuho Ambivalent
-no bra
i am looking for something like the ones i listed.
know any

It reads that "Any type of attire which attracts undue attention to the wearer, and thus causes a disturbance in the school, is in bad taste and not acceptable." I’m curious if this (indirectly) prohibits cross-dressing. Personally, I don’t think it should be prohibited. Does anyone believe it should? Why?

Recap: Does my school dresscode prohibit cross-dressing, and should cross-dressing not be allowed in public schools?