a while back teenaged boy who cross dress’ed wrote a question on here! he was very confused about his sexuality. specificly whether he was gay or not, and sounded very desparate about it. he went on to say he tryed oral sex with a male friend , and did that make automaticly gay. the yahoo answer extreme right wing prudes cut him to ribbons with their answers, the rest on here that get their kicks making fun of people did their best to grind him in to the floor. i was the only one who addressed the questions he had and tryed to give good advice to him. i felt i was qualified being life long cross dresser to answer those questions adquately and intelligently. so what happened with my answer some prude on yahoo answers who thinks cross dressing is mortal sin reported it the yahoo answers community , who promptly deleted my answer , suspended me, and had my yahoo account de-activated! all of this for trying to help some kid feel better? i apealed all thee decision, i won on 2.
my account re-activated and unsuspended under this name . i want to know what they do the answers commitee and and the answers community. how they target certain groups to get those people kicked off answers ( i’ve been suspended at least 10 times, apealed 5, won 5)
now this kid asked does the fact that he cross dressed mean he was gay.
my response it does not mean your gay and it does not mean your straight. the question he asked , i explained is a decision that has to come from with himself after thorough self examination, and if he does happen to be gay big deal. lots of others are gay and they are happy and well adjusted. dont worry you’ll figure it like all the rest did and i myself did. because you had oral sex with another guy does not mean your gay either. it is just a sexual act, even it is with the same sex. you might turn out to be bisexual. or it might have been just that one time incident and you might ever do it again. so once again i stressed it’s a question only he could decide. i also adressed his cross dressing issue. i explained i had been cross dressing since i was 12 and still love to do so. i also had a one time sexual act with another boy, but i am a straight male with a girl friend , with a lot of fetishes that i love. whether he’s gay or not does not really matter in the grand scheme of things to come. the main thing is that he is happy and does not try to harm himself over all of this. i think on how hard it was for me as a young boy, all the abuse i took with no one to talk and i wonder how i ever got thru puberty and adolescence. give these poor kids a break incuding the girls inquiring being a lesbian. if anything like one of them commits suicide, i hope your happy, i’ll be very very sad about it, if it does , i hope it never does,
what in gods name is pete c.’s problem, i;m sorry pete if i offended you , i had no idea you were the president of the gay mens union against the entire world. no i do not think all gay men are cross dressers, no i do not think all gay men want to be women! jesus christ Pete give it a break

Like personally I think both is gross, but like I just have different views about make-up and stuff like that… And I know you wouldn’t wear eye-liner to a interview. lol…. You get my point. If you are just dreadfully ugly would that be cross dressing?

I mean would that be considered cross dressing if a guy wears eye-liner or like foundation, I’m talking about like for an interview or somekind of appearence, like if you were going on TV or something…

As you can tell, I’d probably never do either, lol. But do you consider that cross-dressing?

My cousin does it, and he says it’s not. I still think it is..

This is something I was wondering about. I attend clubs a lot and from my travels I have gotten to know some cross-dressers.

However, these men simply do it because they just like to wear women’s clothes sometimes. I have talked to them and they said that they are not gay, some of them are married, and they do not wish they were born a woman or anything like that.

Now, why would they be interested or get pleasure from dressing up as a woman? Does anyon have insight into this?

Since California is the main state that supports them, do you think they should all move there?

Representing North Carolina here, get out.

hi I’m a 21 year old male, and I’ve been cross dressing probably since I was 13. Anyway it was never a regular thing only once in a while, recently I’ve been doing it more often and I love it, just love the feeling of the clothes and the idea of being female really gets me off. Now don’t get me wrong I am attracted to women just I’m more attracted to them when I act like one, often I fantasize about being a lesbian. Also I like some guys, however I get more attracted to them when I dress up and act effeminate, when I’m not horny I have a very masculine sense of self and I feel my cross dressing is really confusing me, so would it be better for my mental state to stop cross dressing? I can except that I’m probably bisexual but the idea of me wanting to be cross gendered is starting to freak me out