Not to long ago I went on a date with a cross dresser and found it to be a very erotic experience. We met on a more traditional dating site and I doubt I will run into the same situation again. I want to explore this area a little bit more but short of going to gay bars by myself and just hanging out, I’m not sure how to connect with heterosexual men interested in cross dressing. Any suggestions?

i do am a cross dresser but like to know a danielle and i like ladys and man but i what to be with ladys so what would be more right saying for my gay or les i go so lady in the life so what am i be called i do not know how to say it i think of myself as a les

As a widower of a certain age, I mostly appeal to women of a certain age. My late wife and I never had any problems over my cross dressing which started late in our marriage. In fact, she was happy with that aspect of my life and never said anything disparaging. She went shopping with me for clothes and we planned on my eventually being somewhat out as a transgender person.

In most cases this type of arrangement seems to happen after a couple have been married and often after the wife finds out and there is a crisis in the marriage that requires a lot of work to fix. Often though it results in divorce or unwilling acceptance by the wife to avoid a divorce. I don’t want to go through that.

When and how should I tell a woman I think would be a good partner about my feminine side? I cannot change this part of my inner being any more than change my gender and I am to old to do a full transition to F. What do women think about this type of man? Especially women over say 50?

I am a somewhat controlling woman, attractive and sexy but controlling….always being attracted to nice guys I can control…..and I would like to dress him as a girl and make him a sissy….just between us…..that is a turn on…..but….how can I tell him this??? Is just a fantasy I have. When I was younger, I dressed up my brother…we played at home when my parents were gone, and, my bro is a normal guy…he loves girls…so….this is not about denigrating someone….He is very nice(BF), and perhaps he will get all ruborised when I tell him this…..I just do not want to hurt his feelings….I really care for him….what should I do????He would look so cute in high heels and a girly dress.

first im a guy second im look kind of like a nerdy Goth third I have always wanted to dress like a prep a prep girl and a Goth girl is this wrong best answer gets 10 points what ever that means