Hello, I am a 27 year old male, I work a decent job, and have alot of friends.

where I difer from most "normal" people is, I have a womans shoe fetish, I love womens shoes, I own upwards of 20 pairs, everything from flats I bought at walmart, to 6" patent leather stiletos and knee high – high heel platform boots, and I wear a pair everynight from the time I get home from work til I go to bed, difrent shoes on difrent nights depending what sort of mood I am in, Ill admit, it always has been a bit of a turn on, but more or less I just like the way they look and feel.

I have never had sex with another male, I have never dressed up in any womens clothes other then shoes, not even nylons / pantyhose, the other day I accidently left my shoe cabinet unlocked and my friend found them, her first thought was I didnt know you were gay, it was hard to explain to her I was not gay or a cross dresser I just liked them, she thought otherwise.

does this make me gay or a cross dresser?

Eating, drinking, and being Mary.

how come men cross dress i told my girl freind i do it and she likes it

and piercing his ears and putting makeup on him and making him feel cute in such outfit possibly affect his future sexuality?

Please support your answer by real-life examples, if possible.
Thanks.