just because our society says certain people should dress a certain way doesn’t make any other way wrong…like the very first high heels ever worn were worn by men, in Ireland and Scotland some men wear kilts (like skirts), back in the 50’s and before women wearing any kind of pants were labeled as cross dressers, and even Jesus (or at least pictures of what he might have looked like) had long hair which is now seen as more of a girl hairdo…why do some people make a big deal out of cross dressing for no reason?
fred: why? just because they aren’t fitting in to what others have decided is "normal"?
Anony Moose: I was just giving examples of something our society would consider cross dressing but others consider it perfectly normal…

There’s a fairly popular theory that when a cross-dressing character appears in a work of fiction, it is often a marker of a challenge to some other binary: male vs. female, rich vs. poor, black vs. white, etc. Can anyone tell me who originally thought up this theory, or at least a book or article that discusses it? Thank you!
Found it myself, it was Margorie Garber, "Vested Interests."

Can women cross-dress?

I say no because there are no clothes that are those of as only for the male gender now.

Strange thinhs sometimes happen in a man’s mind. I know men who like beautiful women and maybe they’re happily married, but they also have sex with beautiful transvestites from time to time.
Do you think they’re gays?

I have no problem finding men to be with but why does it feel so good when I wear sexy panties and stockings and why do my men enjoy seeing me in them so much?