THIS IS NOT A TROLL QUESTION MEANT TO OFFEND ANYONE

But it seems to me the problem with transvestites and transsexual is a mental one not a physical one. I mean since it doesn’t make sense to ‘be a man trapped in a woman’s body’. Why not deal with the problem in their head instead of going through a drastic procedure of a sex change?

Recently a friend of mine found out that there boyfriend was a cross dresser. This led to her leaving him. I think if I found out that my boyfriend was a cross dresser, i wouldn’t have a problem with it, even mabye help him. Am I alone in this, how would other women react, would you leave, stay and ignore or get into it?

Defintion of gender bending.

1.One who dresses or acts in an androgynous manner.
2.Something, such as a theatrical performance or a book, whose portrayal of gender roles is nontraditional or androgynous.

So number one is implying cross dressing can be considered as gender bending?

I recently found out my husband (to whom I have been married barely a year) likes transgenders and wears womens’ clothes himself sometimes. I am shocked, and a little upset but I don’t know what to do? He obviously loved me enough to marry me but can I trust him not to cheat on me with this secret he still hasn’t admitted to me?